The reason these games may be necessary is that although many couples are able to break the impasse by playing the games previously described, they often end up becoming inundated with new feelings, thoughts, and memories. Some become confused by this inundation and do not know what to do next. Others become exhilarated—but the thrill quickly wears off and is followed by disillusionment when the novelty of the games loses its appeal and they backslide to their former defensive postures. Still others experience what I call “fools’ tenderness”—a feeling of joy connected with such new-found sexual satisfaction. This form of tenderness does not come entirely from the heart, but in part also from the unleashed libido, and so is not a grounded kind of tenderness.

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